In the wonder of marriage, God has given every husband and wife something that will bring them into a closer and deeper relationship with Him and each other; it is called COVENANT. When married couples learn the knowledge and language of what covenant truly is, they will experience the presence of God in a way that will make them complete and one in their marriage.
In the book "Carrying the Covenant of Marriage" you will discover and learn that the greater the burden in your marriage is only a sign of God building the faith and love of every husband and wife. You will learn that the reason marriage can hurt so bad is because it was designed to. It is the pain and sacrifice of marriage that allows two people that love each other to become one.
Only when husbands and wives have come to understand that they do not have what it takes to make it in marriage, but it takes God to give them what they need to be successful in marriage. Only through the faithfulness of husbands and wives carrying the covenant of marriage, will their marriage glorify our Lord and savoir Jesus Christ. God Bless You.