商品簡介
If you love someone who has died, this book is for you.
If you love someone who may die, this book is for you.
If you love, you will grieve—and this book is for you.
A timeless book, destined to become a classic.
Grief and love are two expressions of the same process—and nothing is more mysteriously central to becoming fully human. For any who love, grieving is all but inevitable. When a loved one dies, the pain of loss can feel unbearable—especially in the case of a traumatizing death that leaves us shouting NO! with every fiber of our body. Grief commands our attention and erupts unpredictably, inescapably. The process of grieving can feel wild and nonlinear—and often lasts for much longer than other people, the non-bereaved, tell us it should. And it is important.
Dr. Joanne Cacciatore, a bereavement educator, researcher, and leading counselor in the field, accompanies us in the painful process of transformation through love, loss, and grief. This beautifully-written companion for life’s most difficult time is heartrending and utterly healing—revealing, in an undeniably personal way, how grief can open our hearts to interconnection, compassion, and the very essence of our shared humanity. Through generous, insightful writing and moving stories of her encounters with grief over decades of supporting individuals, families, and communities—as well as her own experience with loss—Cacciatore opens a space for us to process, integrate, and deeply honor our own grief.
Not just for the bereaved, Bearing the Unbearable will be required reading for grief counselors, therapists and social workers, clergy of all varieties, educators, academics, and medical professionals. Organized into 52 accessible and stand-alone chapters, this book is also perfect for being read aloud in support groups.
作者簡介
Dr. Joanne Cacciatore has a fourfold relationship with bereavement.?She is herself a bereaved mother: her newborn daughter died on July 27, 1994—and that single tragic moment catapulted her unwillingly onto the reluctant path of traumatic grief. And for, more than two decades, she’s devoted herself to direct practice with grief, helping traumatically bereaved people around the world—on six continents. She’s also been researching and writing about grief for more than a decade in her role as Associate Professor at Arizona State University and director of the Graduate Certificate in Trauma and Bereavement program there. In addition, she’s the founder of an international non-governmental organization, the MISS Foundation—an organization dedicated to providing multiple forms of support to families experiencing the death of a child at any age and from any cause—and since 1996 has directed the foundation’s family services and clinical education programs.
Cacciatore is an acclaimed public speaker and provides expert consulting and witness services in the area of traumatic loss. Her research has been published in 55 peer-reviewed journals such as The Lancet, Social Work and Healthcare, and Death Studies, among others.
She received her PhD from the University of Nebraska-Lincoln and her master's degree and bachelor's degree in psychology from Arizona State University. Her work has been featured in major media sources such as People and Newsweek magazines, The New York Times, Boston Globe, CNN, National Public Radio, and the Los Angeles Times. She has been the recipient of many regional and national awards for her empathic work and service to people suffering traumatic grief.
She travels quite often but spends most of her time in Sedona, Arizona with her family and three rescue dogs. She also has three horses that are part of her Rescue Horses Rescue People equine therapy program. She’s also an ordained Zen priest.
Dr. Jeffrey Rubin is among the leading authorities on the integration of meditation and psychotherapy. He’s the?author of?Practicing Meditative Psychotherapy?and?The Art of Flourishing. He lives in New York City.
