You're Right, I'm Wrong
This book is all about having a great partnership. It takes a unique approach to your relationship. Part 1 starts by helping you understand how your partnership got so bad. It allows you to step back and connect with similarities in your partnership. The goal is to help you understand how you have unknowingly created problems so you can get on a path to fixing them.
Part 2 helps you to understand why your partnership went bad. This is where you begin to see what caused the disconnections. You'll begin to see your actions in a new way, shining a light on how they affect your partner. Once you understand the how and why you are halfway to fixing your partnership.
Part 3 is the most important, because it's about resetting the relationship. It has a step-by-step approach to fixing your partnership and sixteen tools needed to do so. When reading the book, you will understand what needs to be repaired in your partnership and, more important, which tools will fix it.
A Quick Test
Here is a quick test: When you've pissed off your partner and they leave the room and lock the bedroom door, what do you do?
A. Leave them alone to cool off.
B. Knock on the door and apologize.
The answer is B. Knock on the door and apologize. But you weren't wrong! Why are you apologizing when you're sure you're right! The answer's easy: you're apologizing for not being on the same page with your partner.
If you don't apologize, you will live in misery in your own house. Why be in misery when you don't have to be, unless you like the pain? Apologize so you and your partner can start talking again. Understanding again. And getting on with a happy life and partnership. This book is all about living a fun and happy life.
