Barstools & Brotherhood: A Man's Guide to Social Clubs, Bars, and Building Real Connections

By Mike Cherry

You don't need a membership to belong. You just need a seat at the right table.
In a world that pushes men to grind harder, stay isolated, and pretend everything's fine, Barstools & Brotherhood offers something different-a return to the spaces where real connection, conversation, and camaraderie still matter.
Whether you're a seasoned bar regular or someone just craving more meaningful male friendships, this book is your practical guide to building the brotherhood you didn't know you were missing. From decoding bar culture and drinking with class to starting your own social club, author Mike Cherry lays out a relatable, real-world playbook for men who want something deeper than small talk and solo scrolling.

Inside you'll find:

• The lost art of the modern gentleman's club-and how to revive it
• How to find or create your "third place" outside work and home
• The unwritten rules of bar etiquette, drinks, and social leadership
• Real stories, hard-earned wisdom, and nights that actually mattered
• How to build a crew that shows up, supports each other, and sticks around

Pull up a stool. The brotherhood's waiting.