Parenting as a Type Nine: Tools for Parenting with Clarity, Compassion, and Confidence

Parenting as a Type Nine: The Aligned Parent Workbook
For the Peacemaker Parent who longs to stay present without losing themselves.

Do you find yourself going along with others to keep the peace-even when something doesn't feel quite right? Do you quietly absorb everyone else's needs while your own go unnoticed? As a Type Nine parent, your steady presence and deep desire for harmony are gifts-but when stress, conflict, or overwhelm arise, it's easy to drift, numb out, or forget that your voice matters too.

This gentle, practical workbook was created just for you.

Parenting as a Type Nine helps you:

• Recognize when you're parenting from alignment-and when you're slipping into passivity

• Reclaim your voice in co-parenting and extended family dynamics

• Stay engaged without abandoning your need for calm and inner peace

• Support children who are wildly different (or eerily similar) to you

• Set boundaries with warmth, clarity, and care

Written by a therapist and Enneagram practitioner, this workbook is part reflection journal, part practical guide. With type-specific insights, grounding practices, and empowering prompts, it's here to help you show up more fully in your parenting-without losing yourself along the way.

You don't have to become louder, harsher, or "more like other parents."
You just have to come home to yourself.