Loving Me: The Hidden Agenda of Self-Esteem

Loving Me: How to Turn a Self-Esteem Culture Into Christ-Esteem Clarity is a bold, compassionate, and deeply biblical look at how our culture's obsession with self-love, self-worth, and self-expression has shaped our souls-and what it means to be truly free in Christ.

Written for everyday Christians who struggle with insecurity, over-sensitivity, relational brokenness, or the craving for approval, this book offers more than spiritual platitudes or pop psychology. Instead, it takes the reader on a redemptive journey through the heart, helping them identify the idols of self, the fear of man, and the subtle ways self-righteousness distorts love-both for others and for themselves.

Through compelling case studies, diagnostic questions, biblical exposition, and honest reflections from the author's own story, Loving Me helps readers:

• Discern the difference between self-love and Christ-centered love
• Recognize the symptoms of self-righteousness masked as insecurity
• Discover why craving approval is a form of soul bondage
• Learn how to love others without losing yourself or manipulating them
• Find gospel hope in shame, regret, and past relational pain
• Embrace a biblical view of identity rooted in being an image-bearer and a child of God

This book is not just for those who feel broken or "less than." It's for anyone willing to examine the quiet pride behind the need to be loved, affirmed, or right. It challenges cultural assumptions about self-esteem and replaces them with a deeper, richer theology of love that flows from the cross and leads to lasting joy.

Whether you're a biblical counselor, pastor, small group leader, or simply someone longing to understand how to live and love more freely, Loving Me will guide you through the hard questions-and toward the healing hope found only in Jesus Christ.