No Sabía Cuánto Necesitaba Esto / I Didn't Know I Needed This: The New Rules for Flirting, Feeling, and Finding Yourself

No sab燰 cu嫕to necesitaba esto es la dosis de confianza que toda chica necesita para vivir a su manera. Eli Rallo es una Carrie Bradshaw de la era de TikTok, una rom嫕tica y la mejor amiga que toda mujer desear燰 tener. Como alguien que se enorgullece de sentir plena y profundamente, Eli te acompa鎙 en el viaje de besar sapos, enviar (y borrar) mensajes arriesgados y hacer amistades para toda la vida, mientras encuentras el amor, te enamoras de ti misma y aprendes a aceptar que las cosas saldr嫕 bien. En esta perspectiva sincera y vulnerable sobre el mundo moderno de las citas, Eli da sus reglas para cada etapa del juego con trucos probados.

El libro sigue el ciclo de vida natural de las relaciones afectivas empieza con la solter燰 y el flirteo, atraviesa las citas, las relaciones sexuales, el enamoramiento y la gesti鏮 de las relaciones, y llega hasta al desamor, la superaci鏮, la priorizaci鏮 de las amistades y el respeto a la propia vida. Descubre las reglas que le han funcionado y que le han valido m嫳 de medio mill鏮 de seguidores en TikTok

Prep嫫ate para una primera cita

Pon a prueba a una persona en escenarios distintos antes de comprometerte

Coquetea con tu pareja sin importar cu嫕to lleven juntos

Date un tiempo de duelo despu廥 de una ruptura

Siempre ( siempre!) comunica tus necesidades, deseos y l璥ites
Encuentra peque鎙s maneras de amar tu vida

ENGLISH DESCRIPTION

**A Publisher's Weekly Bestseller**

From TikTok star Eli Rallo, an irreverent, laugh-out-loud funny, and searingly honest take on modern dating and romance with tips, tricks, and survival-guide style rules.

I Didn't Know I Needed This is the dose of confidence every girl needs to live their life on their own terms. Eli Rallo is a social media superstar, a Carrie Bradshaw for the TikTok age, a true romantic at heart, and the best friend every young woman wishes she had. As someone who prides herself in feeling fully and deeply, Eli is on the ride with you, kissing the frogs, sending (and deleting) the risky DMs, climbing down frat house gutters, making the friends you'll have for life, all while finding love and falling in love with yourself and learning that everything will be alright. In this earnest and vulnerable look at what it's really like to date as a young woman in the modern world of dating apps, rotating rosters, and social media snafus, Eli gives her rules for each stage of the game--tried and true tricks of the trade.

I Didn't Know I Needed This follows the natural lifecycle of dating, starting with being single, flirting, and navigating the apps to going on dates, having sex, falling in love, and managing relationships, to finally dealing with heartbreak, finding closure, prioritizing your friends, and honoring your life. Discover the rules that have worked for her, and garnered her more than a half million TikTok followers:

- prep for a first date like an athlete before a big game
- try a person out in different settings before committing to them
- plan the second date while you're out on the first
- find your perfect "eff me sweater"
- flirt with your partner, no matter how long you've been together
- give yourself a set mourning period to wallow after a breakup, and then stick to it
- always (always!) communicate your needs, wants, desires, and boundaries
- find little ways to love your life and treat yourself

With touching stories of her own adventures and mishaps, Eli helps you navigate dating in a way that's frank, honest, funny, and relatable, giving the advice that you didn't even know you needed.