Dancing out of the Dark: A Tango. A Jazz Club. A Rebirth after a Narcissist

In Dancing Out of the Dark, Karin tells the story of a love that looked intoxicating, intelligent, and deeply connected-until it revealed itself as something far more dangerous. Drawn together by tango and late-night jazz clubs in Buenos Aires, she and Cem share a connection that feels almost fated. But beneath the rhythm and romance lies emotional manipulation, control, and a slow erosion of self.

With unflinching honesty and lyrical insight, this memoir traces the anatomy of a narcissistic relationship-how charm disguises control, how silence becomes punishment, and how love can quietly turn into self-abandonment. Through memories of childhood conditioning, intimate relationships, and the seductive world of tango, Karin reveals how empathy, strength, and independence can paradoxically make a woman vulnerable to emotional abuse.

This is not a story of revenge or diagnosis. It is a story of clarity. Of recognizing patterns. Of understanding that healing does not come from confrontation, but from reclaiming one's inner voice and dignity.

Dancing Out of the Dark is for readers who have loved deeply, lost themselves quietly, and are ready to find their way back-step by step, breath by breath, into the light.