Stuck Between Two Different Worlds

We have all come from a woman. We have all been nourished, carried and molded from/by a woman, and because of a woman. However, a male’s seed is the jumpstart to the circle of life. Strong men simply need women. A strong man needs a woman or women, who is or whom are truly his. At his feet. Being his backbone. Anything less is not a fulfillment to him. Weak men will never understand this. Weak women will never be able to grasp this concept. Monogamous... were we really created to be monogamous? Most men are afraid to even ask their lady for a threesome, knowing damn well, they would love to experience one. How do you know she doesn’t want to experience the same? What keeps you from articulating this to you significant other? Judgment, resentment, perhaps both? Are we really suppose to be monogamous? Society programs us where we are almost required to get married. Seventy percent of women do not love their husbands, they just have a desire to be married. It’s like they are in love with marriage itself. They love ‘love.’ Fifty percent of men, just love the ‘chase.’ The ‘conquer.’ What is society really making us believe? You will find your soulmate, truly love one woman or man forever? Yet again, no matter the gender, people cheat, they flirt (that's still cheating by the way), with their eyes. Mouth. Thoughts. Hearts. Emotions. They dream of others and think of others while engaging in sex with their partner. Who comes up with these rules? The rules of ‘how it’s suppose to be?’ Society? Religions? Rulers of the free world? If one person is made for all of us, why are marriages failing, relationships are not lasting as long as expected? She's unhappy. She feels she is not desired, appreciated, or loved enough. He desires more. She is limited. She cannot provide. She is not supportive enough. He could be wealthy, but he cannot provide that emotional connection. He might not be wealthy, but he can provide that mind blowing sex. He doesn’t have money or mind blowing sex, but he can provide that mental or emotional connection. I'm just speaking hypothetically. We are all programmed growing up watching Disney’s animated movies like ‘Cinderella.’ Girls are like, "when I grow up, I want that! Relationship and marriage goals!" What can I say, most women, not all, but most are followers. The men do minimum to get their attention. And women do minimum to none to keep men’s attention. Some men are pussy whipped. Some women are just clueless on what real men want. They alter their bodies, and their personalities to attract men. Looking for "the one", and men alter their character to get them. Everyone is living a lie, to obtain something so real. True relationships are where, you can tell each other everything. No secrets, no lies, 100% trust and openness with no judgment. It doesn't matter if that's your girl, it doesn't matter if that's your husband. If you do not engage in the things I've stated above, you may not be in a true relationship. You may not want to hear the truth, but there it is. Now, what is really polygamy? Polyamorous? Perhaps it's not a fetish? Perhaps it's not cheating? Do you believe a man can love or have a strong deep connection with more than one woman? Do you believe a woman can have two soulmates? Are people nowadays falling out of love with their partners and falling more in love with what their partners provide or are willing to provide?