Mar a Soto es una de las mejores embajadoras de Disciplina Positiva en Espa a. Jane Nelsen, autora de C mo educar con firmeza y cari o. El objetivo de este libro tan personal es dar a conocer qu es y c mo se aplica la Disciplina Positiva -desde la ntima experiencia de la autora y su acreditada profesionalidad-, facilitar sus herramientas, relacionarla con la educaci n de los ni os y tambi n contribuir a su puesta en pr ctica. M s de treinta a os de trayectoria avalan esta metodolog a basada en una educaci n a largo plazo, que defiende el equilibrio entre la firmeza y el cari o para ofrecer estabilidad a nuestros hijos mientras les preparamos para la vida, al tiempo que potencia sus capacidades y fomenta en ellos valores fundamentales para aprender a vivir en sociedad.
Para educar a nuestros hijos de forma consciente, el primer paso ser a maravillarnos con ellos, por ellos. Tratarlos como lo que realmente son. Como al mejor de los maestros, porque sin hacer nada nos ense an a dar lo mejor de nosotros mismos, y cuando inevitablemente nos sale lo peor, por cansancio o desesperaci n, son los nicos que pueden perdonarnos ese mal momento sin juzgarnos. Siguen ah , esperando un abrazo, olvidando nuestra peor cara, queri ndonos incondicionalmente y aceptando de nosotros lo que no soportamos de ellos. Mar a Soto
ENGLISH DESCRIPTION "Mar a Soto is one of the best ambassadors of Positive Discipline in Spain." -Jane Nelsen, author of
Positive Discipline.
The objective of this very personal book is to explain to readers what Positive Discipline is and how it is applied -from the author's personal experience and her accredited professionalism-; to provide its necessary tools; cross-reference it to children's general education; and also contribute to putting it into practice. This methodology, which is based on a long-term education and is endorsed by over thirty years of experience, supports a balance between strictness and nurturing to offer stability to our children while preparing them for life, and while also enhancing their capabilities and fostering in them fundamental values to learn to live in society.
"To educate our children in a conscious way, the first step would be to marvel at them. Treat them for who they really are, as the best teachers. Because without knowing it or doing anything in particular they teach us to give the best of ourselves, and when inevitably the worst comes out, due to being overly tired or stressed out, they are the only ones who can forgive us for those bad moments without judging us. They continue to be there waiting for a hug, forgetting our worst faces, loving us unconditionally, and accepting from us what we would not accept from them." -Mar a Soto
