The Dealbreaker Diary: Red Flags, Reality Checks, & The Power Of Walking Away

Ever found yourself single, dating, committed, legally entangled, or watching a friend do emotional backflips for someone who couldn't identify a real feeling if it walked up wearing a name tag - all while your intuition is blaring like a five-alarm fire no one else seems to hear?

Welcome to The Dealbreaker Diary: the book you'll read, highlight, quote, and immediately send to at least one friend who keeps confusing "bare minimum effort" with compatibility.

This isn't romance. It's not a healing workbook. And it's definitely not another soft-spoken TED Talk about boundaries. It's the brutally honest, laugh-so-you-don't-cry survival guide you wish someone had slapped into your hands the moment you mistook a walking red flag for "maybe they're just complicated."

Written by a woman who fell hard, silenced every gut feeling, and learned the uncomfortable truth: Some people treat effort like homework - procrastinate, half-do it, and then act like they deserve extra credit.

Before you sigh at the word "narcissist," let's get real. The term gets tossed around so much it's practically background noise. But actual narcissistic abuse? That's a psychological rollercoaster with charm at the top and emotional freefall at the bottom. The kind that leaves you doubting your reality and self-worth while everyone else assumes you're exaggerating. You're not. And she definitely wasn't.

This book shines a spotlight on the dealbreakers we rename as "quirks" because starting over feels scarier than staying stuck. Inside are snapshots of the narcissistic whiplash - the intoxicating highs that hook you and the soul-rotting lows that break you - the clarity she fought like hell to reclaim, and the freedom she found the moment she walked out and refused to look back.

Whether you're dating someone new, trapped in a long-term "what even is this," married and mentally packing a suitcase, or trying to rescue a friend from their personal red-flag circus - this book is your flashing neon sign.

Grab your coffee. Flip the pages.

And if something in here makes your stomach drop because it sounds a little too familiar?

It's time to stop shrinking, reclaim your voice, and choose yourself - before someone else narrates a story you never signed up for.