Romance Without Apology

Romance Without Apology is a bold, affirming guide to love for disabled people who are tired of shrinking, explaining, or apologizing for their needs. This book rejects the idea that romance must be earned through endurance, gratitude, or self-erasure. Instead, it offers a new foundation for intimacy-one rooted in dignity, clarity, and mutual respect.

Drawing from lived realities rather than clich廥, this book explores how disabled people are often taught to confuse needs with inconvenience, care with debt, and love with compliance. Each chapter dismantles these harmful patterns and replaces them with practical, emotionally grounded tools for communicating without apology, asking without shrinking, and claiming space in relationships.

This is not a book about "overcoming" disability or becoming easier to love. It is about recognizing that love which requires disappearance is not love at all. Through reflective guidance, grounded exercises, and real-world relational frameworks, Romance Without Apology empowers readers to build romantic connections that adapt to reality rather than deny it.

For anyone who has ever felt like love came with conditions, this book offers a radical reminder: you do not owe regret for existing-and you do not have to apologize to be loved.